The Sacrament of Reconciliation is a Sacrament of healing. When I go to confession, it is in order to be healed, to heal my soul, to heal my heart and to be healed of some wrongdoing. The biblical icon which best expresses them in their deep bond is the episode of the forgiving and healing of the paralytic, where the Lord Jesus is revealed at the same time as the physician of souls and of bodies (cf. Mk 2:1-12; Mt 9:1-8; Lk 5:17-26).
1. The Sacrament of Penance and Reconciliation flows directly from the Paschal Mystery. In fact, on the evening of Easter the Lord appeared to the disciples, who were locked in the Upper Room, and after addressing them with the greeting, “Peace be with you!”, he breathed on them and said: “Receive the Holy Spirit. If you forgive the sins of any, they are forgiven” (Jn 20:21-23). This passage reveals to us the most profound dynamic contained in this Sacrament.
First, the fact that the forgiveness of our sins is not something we can give ourselves. I cannot say: I forgive my sins. Forgiveness is asked for, is asked of another, and in Confession we ask for forgiveness from Jesus. Forgiveness is not the fruit of our own efforts but rather a gift, it is a gift of the Holy Spirit who fills us with the the wellspring of mercy and of grace that flows unceasingly from the open heart of the Crucified and Risen Christ. Secondly, it reminds us that we can truly be at peace only if we allow ourselves to be reconciled, in the Lord Jesus, with the Father and with the brethren. And we have all felt this in our hearts, when we have gone to confession with a soul weighed down and with a little sadness; and when we receive Jesus’ forgiveness we feel at peace, with that peace of soul which is so beautiful, and which only Jesus can give, only Him.
2. Over time, the celebration of this Sacrament has passed from a public form — because at first it was made publicly — to a personal one, to the confidential form of Confession. This however does not entail losing the ecclesial matrix that constitutes its vital context. In fact, the Christian community is the place where the Spirit is made present, who renews hearts in the love of God and makes all of the brethren one thing in Christ Jesus. That is why it is not enough to ask the Lord for forgiveness in one’s own mind and heart, but why instead it is necessary humbly and trustingly to confess one’s sins to a minister of the Church. In the celebration of this Sacrament, the priest represents not only God but also the whole community, who sees itself in the weakness of each of its members, who listens and is moved by his repentance, and who is reconciled with him, which cheers him up and accompanies him on the path of conversion and human and Christian growth. One might say: I confess only to God. Yes, you can say to God “forgive me” and say your sins, but our sins are also committed against the brethren, and against the Church. That is why it is necessary to ask pardon of the Church, and of the brethren in the person of the priest. “But Father, I am ashamed ...”. Shame is also good, it is healthy to feel a little shame, because being ashamed is salutary. In my country when a person feels no shame, we say that he is “shameless”; a “sin verguenza”. But shame too does good, because it makes us more humble, and the priest receives this confession with love and tenderness and forgives us on God’s behalf. Also from a human point of view, in order to unburden oneself, it is good to talk with a brother and tell the priest these things which are weighing so much on my heart. And one feels that one is unburdening oneself before God, with the Church, with his brother. Do not be afraid of Confession! When one is in line to go to Confession, one feels all these things, even shame, but then when one finishes Confession one leaves free, grand, beautiful, forgiven, candid, happy. This is the beauty of Confession! I would like to ask you — but don’t say it aloud, everyone respond in his heart: when was the last time you made your confession? Everyone think about it ... Two days, two weeks, two years, twenty years, forty years? Everyone count, everyone say ‘when was the last time I went to confession?’. And if much time has passed, do not lose another day. Go, the priest will be good. Jesus is there, and Jesus is more benevolent than priests, Jesus receives you, he receives you with so much love. Be courageous and go to Confession!
3. Dear friends, celebrating the Sacrament of Reconciliation means being enfolded in a warm embrace: it is the embrace of the Father’s infinite mercy. Let us recall that beautiful, beautiful parable of the son who left his home with the money of his inheritance. He wasted all the money and then, when he had nothing left, he decided to return home, not as a son but as a servant. His heart was filled with so much guilt and shame. The surprise came when he began to speak, to ask for forgiveness, his father did not let him speak, he embraced him, he kissed him, and he began to make merry. But I am telling you: each time we go to confession, God embraces us. God rejoices! Let us go forward on this road. May God bless you!
POPE FRANCIS Wednesday, 19 February 2014
First Reconciliation Frequently Asked Questions
First Reconciliation & First Eucharist registration form
We are now accepting registrations for our 2022-2023 Sacrament Preparation program! If you would like to register your child, please fill out the the registration form above and return completed form to the parish office as soon as possible. Our parent information session will be held on Saturday, September 17th beginning at 9:30 a.m.
At what age should a child first receive the sacrament of reconciliation?
A child is invited to prepare for the Sacrament of the Reconciliation when they are in Grade 2 or 3 or older. As each child ages and develops differently, we suggest children begin Sacrament preparation once they’ve begun to understand reason and Faith. Children must be baptised into the Roman Catholic Church, and be enrolled in an ongoing program of catechesis (either catechism classes or in a Catholic school). Preparations for the Sacrament of Reconciliation and Sacrament of the Eucharist take place at the same time in our parish. If parents feel that their child is ready to prepare for Reconciliation, but not the Eucharist, we can make arrangements for their preparations.
What preparation is required for my child to celebrate their first reconciliation?
Preparation for First Reconciliation includes four sessions with parents and practicing how to celebrate the Sacrament at home. Topics discussed include the Good Shepherd and the Prodigal Son, which talk about Reconciliation in a way that children can understand and can relate to.
Are there requirements of the parents who wish to have their child celebrate their first reconciliation?
Parents must attend all preparation sessions with their child. They must also practice the Rite of Reconciliation (Confessions) with their child at home once the Rite has been gone over during the sessions. Both parents are required to attend all preparation sessions. If time constraints are an issue, parents can speak with our Sacrament preparation coordinator to make alternative arrangements.
When are first reconciliation preparation sessions?
First Reconciliation preparation sessions run throughout the year, taught with First Eucharist preparation as students prepare to receive both Sacraments at the same time. We will be releasing our 2022-2023 Sacrament preparation schedule in September.
Are there costs associated with Sacrament Preparation?
Yes. Costs will cover instructional materials.